Mix it up
Mix it up: Don’t just lie there; switch positions during your romp. It’s fun, great exercise, and will keep a guy going longer (wins all round). Start in missionary, then follow the lead of the randy blue elves for deep penetration and maximum clitoral stimulation – gifts you both can enjoy.
Give a better BJ
Give a better BJ: Make eye contact with your man as you do it. This tip is so simple yet so often forgotten! As you get to work, glance up at him in the most sexy, sultry Scarlett Johansson-like way… and hold his gaze for a few seconds while you sexily lick your lips. It’ll seem like you’re treating him to something extra special.
Drum his bum
Drum his bum: Spankings aren’t just for Fifty Shades of Grey – along with blindfolds and whips, they’re spicing up bedroom repertoires everywhere. Start with soft, quick pats to get his blood flowing. Then spank where his thigh meets his butt – he’s extra sensitive there.
Bust a move
Bust a move: Everyone needs their own stripper song – something that gets your body moving all sexy and sultry. Don’t have one yet? Celeb DJ Hesta Prynn suggests Usher’s ‘Bad Girl’ or Rihanna and Drake’s ‘Take Care’. Dance in slow-mo while making eye contact and running your hands over your breasts and through your hair.
Get into character
Get into character: Surprise him by wearing some skimpy French maid-ish lingerie. Tickle him with your feather duster, then return to your cleaning “duties”, milking the costume for all it’s worth. Once he’s had a good eyeful, lead him to the chambermaid’s room and reward him for his patience.
Splash around
Splash around: Turn down the lights and run a romantic bath for two, but bring along a little friend – a rubber-duckie waterproof vibrator. Let your partner watch you getting wet in the bath (in more ways than one!), promising him he can help you out when you’re done swanning around.
Twist, then shout
Twist, then shout: Geese mate for life. Riff on this concept of eternal intertwinement and wrap your leg over his back, which gives him access to your clitoris. Then use a vibrator around your clit, not on it. The clitoris has legs like a wishbone that extend down the labia, so attention to the surrounding area feels mmm.
Put a ring on it
Put a ring on it: Sure, it’s a little hard-core, but a great trick for dual pleasure is to use a vibrating cock ring. The guy will enjoy a soft vibration on his shaft while you get targeted clitoral stimulation with every thrust. They also help guys get fuller, harder erections. Stocking stuffer, anyone?
Say his name
Say his name: Some say “calling birds”, but originally it was “colly birds”. Take your cue from the evolved lyric and whisper his name lustfully during sex. It’ll snap your mind back from your shopping list to the heat of the moment. Hearing you say his name will turn him on, too.
Use some tongue
Use some tongue: We often neglect kissing and go straight for the below-the-belt stuff. Don’t! In the spirit of the frisky hen’s home country, French kiss him madly, animalistically, then slow down and kiss his cheeks, ears, and neck. It’ll add urgency to the main event.
Coo a little
Coo a little: Turtledoves are traditional emblems of true, devoted love. So in a post-coital moment, make sure to get touchy-feely. After sex, caress his skin all over to help him enjoy the moment. If you can handle a little more mush (come on, it’s Xmas!), coo into his ear and tell him how happy you are to get to spend this time with him.
Go for round two
Go for round two: Why not create a signature couple sex postion? If you’re into missionary, dangle your head, shoulders and arms off the bed while he’s on top (you’ll get a heady rush; he’ll get a sexy view). Found your position? Now give it a code name. Whisper it at his office Christmas party to excite him for the private festivities later
