Similar to a first kiss, first car or first home, getting your first grey hair is a memorable moment, whether it happens to you at age 50 or in JLo’s case, at age 23.
Men have long been graced with the flattering term of ‘silver fox’, however, as women, we haven’t always had the pressure-free ability to age gracefully.
While some of us aren’t ready to embrace our hair au naturale just yet, others are letting their greys grow out. The decision varies from person to person (and each is a-ok), and the same goes for some of our fave celebs.
Here’s what some of them have had to say about going grey…
Jennifer Aniston
Jennifer Aniston’s feelings towards going grey have come a long way since 2009. After admitting on Ellen that finding her first grey almost reduced her to tears, it appears Jen’s feelings have softened.
“If you want to go grey, go for it. Embrace whatever is going to make you happy,” she told Glamour. Does this mean she’s going to let go of her honey blonde mane? That’s yet to be decided.
Andie MacDowell
Speaking to The Zoe Report, Andie MacDowell revealed that the decision to stop colouring her hair wasn’t a sudden one. “I’d been wanting to do it for a few years,” she said. “And then when COVID happened and I saw the roots coming in, I thought it suited me.”
When asked why she waited so long to debut her grey hair (stepping out at the Cannes Film Festival in 2021), she reflected: “I was scared that people would be mean.”
Curious of people’s reactions, Andie confessed: “I read all the comments.” The experience proved to be a positive one, thankfully, and Andie was flooded with support and encouragement from other women who were inspired to follow suit.
“I think women are tired of the idea that you can’t get old and be beautiful,” she said.
“Men get old and we keep loving them. And I want to be like a man. I want to be beautiful and I don’t want to screw with myself to be beautiful.”
Lily Allen
In a complete pivot to what other celebs have been getting up to in quarantine (pink dye jobs and DIY fringes). Lily posted a makeup free selfie letting her grey streaks grow out through her usually jet black hair. Captioning it with a granny emoji, we think it’s Lily’s best look yet.
Cynthia Nixon and Sarah Jessica Parker
Just when we thought we couldn’t be much more excited for the return of Sex and the City, Sarah Jessica Parker posted this pic of her and Cynthia Nixon (AKA our beloved Carrie and Miranda) rocking their greys at their first reboot read-through. Cynthia was embracing all-over icy silver, while Sarah Jessica was letting her greys peep through with pride. Kristin may still be showing off Charlotte’s signature brunette, but hey, we’re in full support of doing whatever makes you feel your best. We will say, however, that we hope the greys stay strong for the show!
Jennifer Lopez
Finding her first greys in her early 20s, J-Lo isn’t convinced on letting them grow out just yet. Speaking to People Magazine, she admitted that she has thought about it though, “I’m kind of tempted one day to let it go. It’d be kind of exciting! Maybe someday we’ll go really far away for like two months and I’m just going to see what it looks like.”
Salma Hayek
Salma is no stranger to embracing her grey hairs. At the 2018 Academy Awards, Salma wore her hair in a loose bun with her white hairs shining through. Last year, she displayed them once again in a stunning bare-faced selfie which she captioned #proudofmywhitehair.
Tracee Ellis-Ross
Tracee’s grey hair content has been one of the best things to come out of iso.
The actress, producer and beauty entrepreneur said back in 2017 that she wasn’t ready to embrace the silver strands just yet.
Fast forward three years and it seems Tracee has changed her mind.
Hilarie Burton
For any One Tree Hill fans, you would know Hilarie as her role in the hit show as Peyton, the blonde curly-haired cheerleader.Dedicating her new hair to front line workers, Hilarie said “the ‘silver lining’ is literally growing out of my skull. For all of our frontline and essential workers who are too busy to fuss with things like hair colour, I grow mine out in solidarity with you.”
Shay Mitchell
The YOU and Pretty Little Liars actress and now mum has said she’s found at least five grey hairs so far.”I call them like wisdom hairs. Like more wisdom, great. You can’t freak out about it. I am getting older. I am happy. You know what that means? I have more experiences.”
Jamie Lee Curtis
For Jamie, the decision to embrace her natural colour came while she was sitting in the chair at the hairdresser. About to undergo her routine colour she realised, “what the eff am I doing putting a chemical on my head that burns? What does it say that you walk into a room and not one person’s hair is her natural colour?”
Naomie Harris
While most of us put the appearance of our grey hairs down to genetics and ageing, Naomie Harris believes hers came about following an accident.”I actually had a car accident and when I woke up the next day I had loads of grey hair which I didn’t have before,” she said in 2017.
Alexandra Grant
L.A artist, Alexandra Grant took to Instagram in 2019 to warn of the links between breast cancer and hair dye. Capturing our attention at her red carpet debut with boyfriend Keanu Reeves, Grant dazzled us with her beautiful grey hair. “I went grey prematurely in my early 20’s… and dyed my hair every colour along the way until I couldn’t tolerate the toxicity of the dyes any more.”
Eva Longoria
Although Eva is still covering her grey roots, she isn’t shy about the fact she’s got them in the first place.
Before Eva discovered the L’Oreal Magic Root Cover Up which you can watch her using, here, she admits to some interesting attempts to cover up her silver strands, which she’s been dying since she was 18.
Eva told Us Weekly. “[To cover my roots] I used to use those mascaras, and it would leave your hair sticky. Then I would use my black eyeshadow, and it would come off when the wind blows.”
Letizia Ortiz
In a transition as surprising as her jump from TV reporter to the Queen of Spain, Letizia has decided to forgo her access to the best hairdressers in the world and let her natural roots shine through.
Have you let your greys grow out? If not, are you thinking about it?
shay mitchell is absolutely stunning
I don't mind the natural grey look
I love it too. I want Cruella de Vil hair!
I like to colour my hair but some people really suit grey hair.
Not a worry to me
I think I am lucky because my hair if fair and the few grey hairs I have are still hidden and hardly noticable. Still grey is sometimes very attractive.
Meanwhile I'm out here trying to dye my hair grey
I’m not ready to go grey yet, so I’ll be doing my regular touch ups for a while – wish I’d gotten my mum’s good hair genes rather than my dad’s, she’s got less grey than me!
My mom and dad both went grey but only in later life and I have only now started getting a few at the hair line. Dont mind really.
Just accept them as part of life
They are very much like wisdom lines!
I can't help but think Alexandra Grant is so right about the link between hair dye and breast cancer. My mum was very active, fit and healthy and she colored her hair countless times. She got breast cancer out of nowhere 2 years ago and she lost her battle this year. So embrace grey hair and be happy with what you have. I Love You Always Mum xoxo
I don’t dye my hair for this reason!
Lately I have been getting lots of grey hairs. This article is such a great one. Makes me feel better of my grey hairs.
I love this article as I find it very reassuring!
Whatever YOU are comfortable with. I’m really happy with my natural silver/grey colouring.
Oh Andie, you are a bombshell. Thank you, thank you for embracing ageing. xxx
Isn’t she just gorgeous? Loved her in Maid!
Oh Andie, you are a bombshell. Thank you, thank you for embracing ageing. xxx
She looks like herself. I am in awe. I think I’ve found a new hero.
I have recently seen her a Tv show on Netflix and she was lovely. Cannot remember the name of it.
The show you are thinking of is Maid!
I’m not ready for grey hair yet.
Me either. Why does it even have to exist! 😏
It’s a shame some of these women don’t permanently embrace their grey but eventually dye over it.
Still have none, so do not think about it. I think mine is due to genetics. Dad got just some greys in his late 50s and 60s…beard and sideburns. Hair not much.
You’re lucky, Yohanna – my brother & I both found our first greys when we were in primary school! It’s genetic, in our case, too.
Wow, so early. Definitely genetics. My friend got first ones in his 20s. Thought that was early. Also genetics.
I had mu first greys in primary school too. Sane as my son!
You’re so lucky Yohanna. I have dark hair so as soon as one pops up it’s extremely noticeable.
My mom had pitch black hair. Got couple of greys in her 40s and was like: omg! Pull it out. Then got used to it lol. Plus I did not notice until she pointed it out. Bianca, when grey hair comes naturally, it compliments our looks! My bestie is same age as me and his hair is silver. Soooo shiny like real metal! Looks so good! His skin so smooth. So looks even cooler, young but with gorg silver hair.
I love that look- silver hair and smooth skin! Loving Lily Allen’s look!
Jamie-Lee rocks salt and pepper.
I let my greys grow out through the lockdown and I really didnt like it. I love it on others but I felt very washed out and hated it.
I’d go gray if it suited me, but unfortunately it doesn’t.
Wow what a lovely lot of ladies.
Aren’t they just?
They all look so lovely – I’ve been considering letting my just come in as they come in rather than trying to dye and henna them away, and these pictures help (though I do not not everyone here has grey hair!) – Andie is especially beautiful.
I think they look beautiful. Can’t wait to my hair is fully grey . It depends on what colour you go
Nothing wrong with grey hair but I prefer to colour mine.
That pic purportedly of Salma Hayak at the 2018 Academy Awards is Chrissy Teigen!
You sure do have an eye for detail Misfortune8.
I’m mildly OCD, Bianca – things like that just jump out at me.
Hahaha!
This gallery has been updated. The pic of Andie MacDowell is new – I was surprised when she debuted her new grey.
Jamie is cute
I love that happy shot of Jamie Lee – she looks so brilliantly happy! I think that is all that really matters.
She always seems to have a light that shines from within!
And they all look fabulous!
I don’t think I could do it
Good on them, they are setting good trends, we need to love ourselves the way we are instead of trying to hide behind trends.
All very lovely.
After losing my hair during cancer treatment I decided that when it grew back that I wouldn’t colour it anymore.
It took me quite some time to get used to my grey hair but I do like it now. It was great not to have to worry about doing the regrowth during lockdown.
Good on you . Some people can really wear grey and I am glad you are one of them -enjoy
How beautiful is that image of of Salma, such a natural beauty
I can;t see a grey in sight on J Lo
My hair wouldn’t dare go grey, lol
I’m still waiting for my first grey hair. I quite like the grey look. My partner is going quite grey and he looks quite dashing!
I let my greys grow through during lock down for a few weeks but I got sick of looking at them so DIY dye.
I admire people that can embrace grey and some people can wear with style but I am not one of them. I let my hair go grey a year ago and I did not suit at all and I hated it so I am back to the colour wheel again.
Decided to let my grey hair shine through I have a Salt and Pepper colouring sometimes goes blonde. Now days I try to keep it a nice Silver Colour now days my hair style looks like Jamie Lee Curtis. 🙂🎄🌹
Love this! I already have some greys the joys of dark hair!
Absolutely loving this trend. Nothing is more alluring than confidence.
I feel like ageing gracefully and naturally has always been a bit taboo for women. Men on the other apparently get better with age and with their grey hair.
Men are called ‘”distinguished” and a “silver fox” and women are called “old”!
Some women look fantastic with their natural grey hair
Some people suit grey hair. Alexandra Grant looks gorgeous
I’ve been trying to go lighter with my hair dyes to reduce the look of my grey zebra stripe!
I’m in my 50s but only have the occasional grey hair so far.
i cant wait to go full grey! embrace it …
Love the confidence
I’m caught between a rock and a hard place!
My hair is greying quite nicely NOW and is a lovely silvery shade but it seems your hair doesn’t grey evenly (well, not mine!) so I’m now supplementing the grey with blonde foils to blend in my stubborn dark blonde (particularly at the back) that refuses to give in and go grey!
Process initially started in June 2019 (coming up 3 years) using only blonde but after 6+ months last year when I couldn’t get to the hairdresser (no colour or cut) I have to say I did get used to it and didn’t suffer too badly as the growing out grey blended well andthe hairdresser and I decided to embrace it and keep it – supplementing it with foils of Gronde!
Lockdown did me a favour! But it may take another few years until my ‘natural’ grey has take over enough to ditch the hairdresser foils.
Grey hair is so ageing, I will carry on with the hair colour